From Shane Parrish's twitter feed - @ShaneAParrish
Here are 5 Invariant Principles for dealing with others:
- Contrast matters: For example: Being slightly kinder than average is rewarded, while being slightly less kind than average is punished asymmetrically.
- Don't keep score: For example; If you're keeping score in any relationship, it's already over.
- Take the high road: For example: Have patience for all but malicious acts. Be humble. Don't make excuses. Don't speak for others or talk about them behind their back.
- Win/Win is the way: For example: The key to making life easier the older you get is a history of relationships where everyone wins. Trust can't happen without time. Time can't happen if someone is losing.
- Go First; Go Positive: For example: One of the most powerful behavioral algorithms we're hard wired with is tit-for-tat. You can easily make this work for you by going positive and going first.
Shane says that if you consistently combine these you can't help buy win at life.
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